August 20, 2012

August 20, 2012

Hey all,

So I've decided that my subject lines are really boring, but luckily they don't mean that much anyway. :D This week was markedly better than last week. The missionary ended up going home after all, his parents came to pick him up and everything (he's Korean). He said he'll come up to the office to see us sometimes before he heads off to his mandatory army service. It's kind of funny, he went home from missionary work to spend like three months at home before he has to go to the army for 2 years. I think he thought he was getting a break, but that sounds to me like going from best to just ok to awful. Hopefully everything works out with him.

So after all that jazz on Monday, we went to eat samgyetang which is like Korean chicken soup, with ginseng.  Ginseng is really bitter but they say it's really good for you, and it's kind of a Korean taste. Then we went to the public bathhouse! Woo!  I don't think anyone but my dad knows how awesome those are. Seriously, when you're having a super stressful weekend and missionaries are going home left and right and you're super cranky because you skipped lunch AGAIN, there's nothing better than the bathhouse. Then we went to a big bookstore and bought more flash drives. I remember when having like a 1 gigabyte flashdrive was super expensive, and now we get like 16 gigs for 20 bucks or less. And we have terabyte external hard drives. Craziness! What happened to dialup Internet and the blue screen of death?

I learned something about myself this week: if I skip a meal, I get really slow, tired, and unhappy. Most people can skip one jut fine, but not me. I also learned that I need to make eye contact with people more--bad habit from learning Korean and not knowing what to say for a year, though I wasn't the best at that before my mission either. It's interesting how much you learn on your mission, both practical and spiritual.

So on Friday night, we had dinner at our bishop's house. It was the first time that Elder Lee has been there since he came in February; usually you're pretty close with the bishop (the leader of the local unit of the church which consists of up to a couple hundred people), but ours here in Samcheong is pretty busy. However, he had time randomly, so we ended up getting to go to his house for dinner. During dinner his kids came home (two boys, 3 and 6), and the younger one started messing around. He's a stinker, and he knows it; he's really fun to play with, but I think I encouraged him a little much, and so his dad took him into the other room for some discipline. Oops. :D I learned my lesson there. But anyway, that's not why I'm telling you this story. After dinner, we gave a short spiritual message; it was the one with the teabag about faith. I've done this like ten times. So you put an emptied-out, straightened-out teabag (which is in tube shape) standing up on someone's hand. I did it to the bishop. You tell them that if they don't move, it won't hurt, and say "Do you have faith?" Of course they say yes. So then you light the teabag on fire! The fire goes down and down, and the person's like, "Uh oh, should I move?" It gets almost to their hand, and then the last little part flies into the air before it burns up. Its super cool. Only this time, as I watched the fire burn down towards the bishop's hand, I thought, "Hm... it usually flies by now...." and then the bishop was like, "ouch!" and jerked his hand away. I burned the bishop's hand! Just kidding, it didn't even leave a mark, but it still hurt for a second. I learned that if your activity fails, trying to tie the lesson into it really fails too. :D I had to end up by saying, "Well, my promises don't work out all the time, but God's do." :D me and Elder Lee were talking about it on the way back to the house, and he said, "Well, they might not remember who you are after you leave, but maybe the kids will be in their teens and say, 'A long time ago there was some missionary that came over to our house and burned my dad's hand...'" I thought that was pretty funny. It was a good friendship building experience with the bishop because we all laughed about it when it happened. 

Other than that we've been really busy preparing for conferences and stuff. I'm still getting the hang of all my responsibilities, but it's coming along. And I enjoy being here. Hope you all have a good week!

Elder Matt Dean

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